Thank you for warning us that some of what you feel the need to share may be EXPLICIT.
Though you feel sharing EXPLICIT information about your husband's sin is important to us helping you, the truth is, it’s only spreading your husband’s sin and will actually cause your marriage to remain on its present course of disaster.
* By you sharing sins with us (or anyone else) not only are YOU participating and spreading sin, but you are part of the enemy's scheme to get us to participate and envision what you shared. Ugh :(
"Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness—for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret. But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light"—Ephesians 5:11-13
"...in order that no advantage be taken of us by Satan; for we are not ignorant of his schemes.” 2 Corinthians 2:11.
We realize in today's world everyone speaks openly about so many things that the Bible says should NEVER be spoken of, which is why the sin of immorality continues to spread.
Yes, we'd love to help you, BUT you need to understand that this is our ministry policy and read through what you submitted, then submit a new questionnaire again that is "clean" enough to be read by a young person who has never been exposed to the sins running rampant in today's world.
And should the next questionnaire you submit contain things that are EXPLICIT—then we will simply NOT be able to help you in the future.
You can easily copy and paste what you've written (to save time), but again, be sure you're honest when you change your answer to the last question, and what you've written IS clear of these things that the bible says we ought not discuss.
Marriage Evaluation Team